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IF YOU ARE NOT SURE, DON’T MARRY

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Tomorrow is Saturday, and lots of people are going to tie the knot for better or worse. A knot that is supposed to keep you together for life. A knot that is more than a contract under the law of the country, but more of a covenant before God.

I want to save you from making the worst mistake of your life. My question to you is, are you sure the person you want to get married to this weekend is the one? If you are sure, what shows? How much do you know about this person you want to get married to? Do you know that you are taking a lifetime guarantee for them? Are you sure you can stand by them through the good and bad times?

Do you know much about their upbringing; Events and circumstances that impacted their lives, and how these things have affected their growth? Can you vouch for them? Can you put your hand in the fire for them? Can you put your life on the line for them?

Are you marrying them because you think you are getting married late? Are you forced to marry and they are the only available persons? Are you compelled to marry them because you have been in a relationship for too long, that people know about your relationship, and you are thinking of what they will say when you back out?

Can you live with the behaviours they show on their worst days for the rest of your life? The issues that you were facing in the relationship, how well did you deal with them before you agreed to get married to them this weekend?

Are you getting married to them to prove a point to someone? Are you getting married to them because you have been lonely for a long time and you think the best solution is marriage? You really need to ask yourself why you are getting married to your partner, and if you have any doubt, it is not too late to back off. Let no one push on you, someone you are not sure of.

Will you accept a job offer for which you have little knowledge of success? Do you know the pressure, stress, discomfort, and anxiety of working in a place where you have little to offer or contribute because you don’t know much about the job? Marriage feels worse than a job. it’s dealing with a complex human being made up of body, soul and spirit, children, family, and your own job and life.

Even if your partner is 100% sure of their decision to get married to you and you are not sure, you need to back out. Maybe the timing is not right. Maybe he or she is not the right partner for you or you are not the right partner for them.

In conclusion, “But if he has doubts about the food he eats, God says he is guilty when he eats it. It is because he is eating without faith. Anything that is not done in faith is sin” – Romans 14:23 (NLV).

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