The best gift you can give to yourself and your unborn children is the gift of marrying the right kind of person.
When you choose a husband, you are also Choosing a father for your unborn children, when you are choosing a wife, also bear it in mind that you are choosing a mother for your unborn children.
Likewise when choosing a wife, you’re also choosing a mother
One of the worst mistake you can make in life, is to enter the life of the wrong person, i.e to marry the wrong person, is not just going to cause a demage in your life but also in the lives of your children.
When you bought the wrong car, you can leave it and get another one, when you got a wrong job, you can forfeit it and get another job, but when you marry the wrong person, you have sentenced yourself to life imprisonment.
Please marry well ooo, when I say things like don’t marry whom you love but love whom you are married to, I know that love is the foundation for any relationship and there are two kinds of love which includes:
Love the feeling: marrying whom you love comes in this form, love is not just a feeling but it is commitment. You cannot be committed to the person you love but you can be committed to the person you get married to.
Love the commitment: love is a commitment not a feeling. Many people thinks that marriage is built on love the feeling, that’s a wrong belief. Let me tell you, love by nature is already a commitment not a feeling.
You cannot be committed to two persons but you can have feelings for many people, so you should love someone you are committed to.
One person’s love can never sustain a relationship or marriage, the love has to has to come from the two individuals, so that the marriage will work.
Don’t marry or be in a relationship with an unbeliever. Marry someone that has the holy Spirit, because when the pressures of life comes, that is when you will know the power of marrying a believer.
Please don’t lead yourself to an unhappy marriage by marrying the wrong person, because if you do so you will live in regret for the rest of your life and I pray that it will never be your portion in Jesus name.
