1) Your attitude to correction: If your fiancé corrects you and you are provoked into anger or you feel inferior because he corrects, then you are not a wife material.
2) Your personal discipline: How much do you value the dignity of womanhood in you? Hanging around every man who comes around or is close to you? Chatting naughty with opposite sex or even same sex at an ungodly hour? No now, sister.
3) Your spirituality: Have you built an altar for yourself? Can you get YES or NO from God at this level when you are desperately in need of something and you go to the Lord in prayers? Does God speak to you on certain crucial decisions of life, and how do you obey or do them?
4) Your personal vision: I am not talking about the kinds of kitchen utensils you are buying for your future home. What do you produce with your life? You are in school, how studious are you? You are learning a trade or skill. How focused are you? You are working in an office or doing your own work. When do you wake up in the morning to prepare for work and how dedicated are you at work?
5) Shamefacedness: How humble are you? If you can still fight in public, use vulgar language, worldly slangs, and uncensored cliches, then something is wrong with the kind of material wife you are becoming or have become already.
6) Neatness: You may be cute in the open, but are your undies neat, too? Stylish dress on stinking panties is an offence to womanhood. How tidy is your room? Do you shower before going to bed?
7) Submission: Submission is a weakness in strengths. Are you wise?
8) Accountability: Accountability is being prudent in spending.
9) Teachability: lf others can not correct you when and where necessary, but you will have to react negatively or even get crossed at him. There is a problem. I don’t see you being a responsible wife after your wedding.
10) Unconditional support for your man: Can you submit to the man you are crazily in love with?
