Sometimes, when there is a fight between you and your man, don’t go to your friend to seek for advice in everything, that has destroyed a lot of marriages and relationship till date. Now when you go to seek advice from a friend for an issue, that person will only advice you on what you told him/her, you alone knows what happened, you know how the fight started, you know how your partner reacted in the fight, but your adviser will only advice you on what they have heard and then they will judge.
They would say do this or do that, maybe he/she is flirting, maybe she/he don’t love you and many more. Now am not saying meeting a friend for advice is wrong okay but you need to know that your friends can be dangerous more than your enemies because they are the ones closer to you and in humans not every smiling face likes you and most people are just waiting for you to make one mistake so they can attack you, your best friend can be your enemy in just a second because we humans can overlook what someone has done for us and hate that person just for one mistake, it happens.
Now after your friend has advice you, maybe she/he told you that your wife/gal/guy/husband is cheating on you and then you two had a little fight again then that word your friend said will come to you and without thinking you will conclude he his cheating when you have no prove but because anger will never let you think, and before you know you it you two are breaking up or worse, that’s why they say when you are angry do not judge.
Now, when you have a serious issue with your man/woman and you still want the both of you to work, time your time and think it all through, check were you are wrong and apologizes don’t just go for advice that would make you start thinking weather he/she is cheating or anything, just apologizes, make sure you do it right, clear your mind then see her/his reaction over the apology, if she/he won’t still accept the apology then give him/her a little space, what you will always come back to you.
