My platforms are for serious people who are serious with their life and are committed to learning to improve their life. This is one reason I love the people on my platforms. My goal, passion and dream is to see them do well in their relationship and marriage.
I write to educate, inform, motivate and inspire others to do more. When I post a write up or article, I am not asking people to agree with me or disagree with me. Most of the things I write on, I am educating people on what they don’t know.
That is why it is needless to disagree because you don’t know or understand. What you do is seek clarity. In my recent post which reads “A woman will accept a gift or money from a man because she loves him. A woman who doesn’t love you won’t accept your gift. Unless such a woman is in the business of prostitution where she trades herself for money or gifts”.
I saw interesting reactions. I deem it right to throw more light on the topic. People need to know that men and women are very different in lots of things. Men are created as GIVERS whilst women on the other hand are RECEIVERS.
When you look at their sexual organs, the greater percent of the male sexual organ is outside and a greater percentage of women’s sexual organ is inside. During sex, the male gives (penis), whilst the woman (vaginal) receive. The man gives sperms (seed) whilst the woman (womb) receives the seed.
One way of the male expressing their love for someone is to show in how or what they give to the person. Men being Givers give to the woman he likes when it comes to relationships. If he doesn’t like the woman then giving to her is equal to buying her morally for his needs or use.
Women on the other hand are not just receivers but they are also emotional. Their feelings matter to them. A woman will be comfortable or happy receiving from the man he likes or loves. She won’t have sex with someone she doesn’t love, same with gifts. If she is receiving from you when she knows she doesn’t like him, she is likely to sleep with him or sell herself morally.
A man can give to you just in the name of sex and after the sex, you mean nothing to him. The same way any woman who agrees to accept gifts or money from you will end up in bed with you when you push for it. To the men whose girlfriends have been receiving gifts from other men and have been giving to you knowing they are not interested in the man, such a lady is likely to sleep with the man. The only thing is that, they don’t tell you when they sleep with the man, the same way they can accept their gifts and money knowing they don’t like him.
We have lots of such relationships going on. Wrong doesn’t become right because many people are doing it. Don’t disagree with me because lots of people are doing what is wrong. I am telling you what is right. I am not saying lots of people are doing what is right.
We all need to be honest with ourselves. Don’t bite what you won’t eat. Don’t accept what you don’t like. Relationships are not just about gifts, money and materials but the thought and motive behind them.
In conclusion “Be kind and honest and you will live a long life; others will respect you and treat you fairly” –
Proverbs 21:21 (GNT).
