If you experience, any or all of these, it’s a sign your relationship is going no where to. End the courtship in peace before you get your fingers burnt for life. Marriage is not by force! Here are the clean clear signs your fiancee does not love you and you should not marry her.
1) SHE DOESN’T CALL YOU: initially, before you start dating or courting, you do all the calls to get her. That is the rule of the game. A lady shouldn’t be so cheap to get. If you really love her, you will go out of your way to get her attention, call, visit, etc till she gives you a “YES!” But after the yes, the game changes and both of you start chasing each other. You should BOTH call, visit and check on each other. If IN COURTSHIP, she expects you to do ALL the calls, chats, visit, etc, she doesn’t love you and that courtship is defective! A blissful marriage is between two lovers who need, chase, pursue, call and converse with each other. If everything falls on you she doesn’t love you. End the relationship!
2) SHE TURNS YOU TO HER ATM and demands for all of your money including your salary without contributing a dime to your life! She is a leech! A destiny sucker! A waster of resources and an idle, indolent, lazy fellow, end the relationship!
3) SHE DOESN’T RESPECT YOU and disgraces, abuses and insults you both in private and in public. Correct her first, second and third time, if she doesn’t change, end the relationship!
4) SHE STILL VISITS HER EX: Contacting them is bad talk less of visiting them. Now that she is in courtship with you, she should forget all her ex. Old feelings don’t die. Somehow somehow, she still has some feelings for them though she will vehemently deny it. Once in courtship, all past relationships must die and be buried. If she keeps contacting all her ex despite your objection, let her go and meet her ex, end the relationship! You can’t share her with her past boyfriends, never!!!
5) SHE HATES YOUR MOTHER: Even if your mother is a certified witch that flies in broad day light, she must accept, honour and respect her for at least giving birth to you. If she hates her with passion to the point of not wanting to see her, end your relationship with her before she poisons your mind against your mother.
6) SHE DOESN’T TRUST YOU: Someone said, “a relationship without trust is like a dead man waiting to be buried”. Trust is the rock of Gibraltar on which every lasting relationship stands. If you are faithful beyond every shadow of doubt but she does not trust you one bit; sniffs on your phone, monitor your movements and even set you up with her friends, your marriage to her will be a big mistake. But if your own movements are suspicious, all your friends are females, you flirt, cheat and sneak around your ex, she will be the one to dump you, you are in two words: NOT SERIOUS!
7) SHE DOES NOT BELIEVE IN YOUR VISION: You have no business being together in the first place. What are you doing together if she can’t support your vision? Watch the movie: GBEMI by Mount Zion Films. It will help a lot.
8) SHE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT HER LOOKS: When a woman is in love, her looks changes to please her lover. If she does not care to adjust her looks to your taste or promises to do so when you get married, she doesn’t love you. If you hate jewelries and she loves them, your destiny does not belong together. End the relationship!
9) SHE DOESN’T CARE ABOUT YOU and what are you still doing in courtship with her?
10) SHE HATES YOU: Case closed. Use your number 6!
You do not need a prophet to tell you if a lady loves you or not. Those are the tell tale signs she doesn’t. Don’t hide under “it is God’s will” and set yourself for hypertension in future. A little word is enough for the wise.
