1) When you are very attracted to the person you are dating, meet rarely with them. Many good people who fornicated never initially meant to. In the moment, the flesh develops a strength and will of itself. You will thank me later.
2) Whoever you spend time with, you can grow in love with. Even if you thought they were not your type but they were your shadow. As long as you spend time with them, you will begin liking what you disliked.
3) Dating is not the cure to being unfaithful and disloyal to a person. It is discipline and character. Your heart and its feelings can still accommodate another person while you are still dating if you are CARELESS with your boundaries. Not everyone who cheats is demon influenced. Some people are just plain careless and it looks demonic pa lasti. If you carelessly spend time with someone you are not dating, lobe!
4) When you start dating, deliberately look good. Only your parents love you for who you are. Your partner wants you to look nice. Noti Umuntu na chi juzi theni nachi zilamba mu October pa 15th pa 13 hours and you expect to be loved for who you are. Awe awe Yvonne
That’s why they don’t post you sometimes. The love they have for you is in their heart. It doesn’t show because you don’t look.
5) Some people naturally have not so great breath and others body odour.
We all know it’s not your fault but don’t take those issues lightly. See a Dentist or a Dermatologist. These things can be handled with proper medical attention and advice. That you are cool with yourself doesn’t mean your partner will be cool with you as well.
6) Don’t be too rigid. Learn that dating another person is accommodating a whole new set of perspectives. Allow some of your partner’s ways of doing things as long as they are not against the word of God. Otherwise it will nolonger be a relationship but a dictatorship.
7) Someone you both respect and can be accountable to should know that you guys are now in a relationship. You both can’t be the alpha and omega of your relationship. A relationship is an institution. You can’t join an institution that lacks a culture and structure of accountability. It is not a God’s will.
8) If you are happy about the relationship and feel that it is leading somewhere, you should spend even once a month praying over it and prophesying over it. Not everyone is happy for you ba Mercy.
9) Remember to be ready to sacrifice opposite sex close friendships. Two tigers cannot live the same mountain. Someone said “but she is just my friend “. Iwe Obed, just because you are not fornicating does not mean you are not cheating. Yes! There is a friendship depth that must be deprived of other people and be invested only on the person you are dating.
I told you nati this is an institution. You can’t come with your tuma rules. Reduce the level of the friendship. Anything other than that is a recipe for anarchy!
10) Add your own we learn something, or complain against the ones that have exposed you.
