Many people married in the night, only to wake up in the morning and discover they married the wrong partner. So was the case of Jacob; in Genesis 29: 20-25, the Bible says And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her. 21 And Jacob said unto Laban, Give me my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I may go in unto her.
22 And Laban gathered together all the men of the place, and made a feast. 23 And it came to pass in the evening that he took Leah his daughter, and brought her to him; and he went in unto her. 24 And Laban gave unto his daughter Leah Zilpah his maid for an handmaid. 25 And it came to pass, that in the morning, behold, it was Leah. It is not Gods will for you to marry in the dark.
He gives you wisdom and knowledge to guide you and His Spirit to help you know His will through the Bible. The Word of God is light and once you allow it to shine during your relationship quest, it guides and help you to marry in the light. So many great leaders, ministers of the gospel and believers are in bitterness today because they married in the evening and when it is morning, they discovered its not really what they desire.