As a single man, you ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says “sorry I’m in a relationship” and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to….”in a relationship or Engaged” …
Worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs on their fbk dp and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of these ladies.
Shall we call that being inlove, being faithful or being naive?
Every single lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you, and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage.
Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried, you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope.
Some of these men won’t marry you!
This is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on facebook thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors.
Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells. And later curse the men whom they claim took them when those men leave to marry other women.
The bottom line is that it is advisable for you to adjust flaunting any guy you are courting on fbk and only flaunt your husband!
Stop blocking your chances because In the real world. There is no such word like “I’m taken” while you are still unmarried.
Engagement doesn’t mean you are taken. Be wise!
