Some people are too possessive. When they get into a relationship with you, they want you for themselves and no one else. They give you no breathing space, always wanting to be the center of attraction. Wanting to dictate what you do, where you go. They monitor every move you make, where you go, who you talk to, who you are with, what you are doing. If there is anything called a monitoring spirit then one might be right to conclude they are possessed by that spirit.
When you are with them, you can’t have friends, whatever you do with others is questionable. They want to be where you are, if you have to go anywhere without them, it means losing you. If you have to make calls or talk to someone, it has to be them. Without them, there is no need talking to anyone else. When they call you and the phone line is busy or you are not available, they become angry, jumping into conclusions that you are seeing someone else.
Love has to be free; you don’t have to be possessive; you have to let it fly. Your partner doesn’t owe you their life because they agreed to be in a relationship with you. They value you and want to share their lives with you. Appreciate that and enjoy every moment they share with you.
In conclusion, “Love does no wrong to a neighbor [it never hurts anyone]. Therefore [unselfish] love is the fulfillment of the Law” – Romans 13:10 (AMP).
