Its hard to realize that your sweet loving husband is cheating, sadly, our society makes it an excusable offence for men but surely not for women, If you ever Discover That Your Man Is Cheating On You… (And I hope not) However, no knowledge is a waste.
Please DO NOT DO THE FOLLOWING:-
(1). DEMANDING TO KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER WOMAN:
The truth may hurt you. Can you handle the truth?
(2). INSULTING THE OTHER WOMAN:
You are giving her power, she doesn’t deserve. Especially if you insult her to your husband e.g. how is your slut doing?
(3) .FORCING HIM TO CHOOSE, THINKING HE WILL CHOOSE YOU:
There is no competition here-you will lose this one! She is new & they are in the honeymoon phase, you on the other hand are an old habit.
(4). CALLING HIM EXCESSIVELY TO CHECK ON HIM LIKE A PRISONER:
He may start to avoid your calls even if he is not doing anything bad just to protect his freedom.
(5). BEATING THE OTHER WOMAN UP:
You are creating sympathy for her. Now she looks like your victim to him. With this one you are still giving her power.
(6). THREATENING TO LEAVE JUST TO SCARE HIM:
You are giving him ideas. You make the grass seem greener on the other side.
(7). CRYING:
He wont feel sympathy for you-he will feel burdened by the tears.
(8). SNOOPING:
Dont hurt yourself unnecessarily. You will find what you are looking for. Dont break into his e-mails. Dont scroll his phone & dont go through his messages. You might develop hypertension with what you will discover my sister.
(9).BEING IN DENIAL EVEN THOUGH THE SIGNS ARE THERE:
Do something about your knowledge or you will make yourself sick. Some diseases are stress-related. Deal with your issues; don’t bottle them up. Open up to someone, who can advice you positively and pray with you .
(10). TELLING HIS MOTHER:
His mum might complicate the issue, give you wrong advice or confronted your man, wrongly and he sees you as woman who want to spoil good relationship between him and his mum, the mum might make the situation unbearable, then for even crying out loud! This is his mother! You might end up give him strength to do more.
And by all means, like I read in a story recently, Never ever Think of COMMITTING SUICIDE: Seriously, Once you’re gone, you’re gone! you have so much more to live for its not worth it,besides you do not need to die for anyone,God already did that!.
Pray…….
Love him…….
Care for him……..
Be available for him for regular sex . Make his food ready at when needed and serve him like King Demonstrate more concern for him Show more interest in what he likes Let him know you are proud of him Make him a proud husband in the presence of his family and friends. The man will come back, prostrate, confess what you did not know, apologize and respect you henceforth.
