Every married man & woman should know that a house only becomes a home when people living in it have a good relationship with each other Don’t turn your house into a lodge where you only visit to sleep & leave the next day. Be present at home physically & also emotionally. Be available to your spouse & children.
The home should be home for everyone; the husband, wife & the children. It should be comfortable for all, accommodating the personalities of all. None feeling like an outsider .As husband & wife – Try as much as possible not to go to bed angry with each other. Nothing communicates home best like a good night’s sleep
Marriage is about serving each other. Serving means helping, meeting each other’s needs, lending a hand. The husband should feel as a King, the wife too should feel as a Queen. Be courteous to each other. Use the words “Please”, “Thank you”, “I am sorry”. Kindness makes people feel at home. It also shows respect for your spouse.
Always be consistent in how you treat each other. Don’t treat each other well only when there are visitors. And when visitors are to come inform each other so that you prepare to host well. That’s how you ought to live. More than anything, love & respect each other as husband & wife.
