It’s very possible to marry the will of God and still have a failed marriage
I asked the above question a few days ago and I received a different response.
Here is my answer to the above question, take your time to read it to the end.
CAPITAL YES!
It’s very possible to marry the will of God and still have a failed marriage.
The fact that God chooses for you doesn’t mean you should not work hard on your marriage to make it work.
It is one thing for God to choose for you, it is another thing for you to fulfill your part.
God has played His role by giving you His daughter or son to marry.
You also need to play your role to make your marriage a successful one.
Husband, play your role well in marriage.
Wife, play your role too.
Let God be proud of you through your marriage.
Make sure you walk and work together with your spouse to make your marriage a heaven on earth.
MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK!
God is not to be blamed if your marriage failed.
You or probably your spouse is the reason why your marriage failed.
Don’t blame God for your actions.
Don’t blame God for your failure.
Don’t blame God for your negligence and ignorance Hosea 4:6
You need to take responsibility and accountability for all your actions in life.
You cannot sit back and hope for a great marriage, you have to create one.
Marriage is indeed hard work, don’t take it with a levity hand.
You need to use wisdom in many situations.
You need to overlook and turn blind eye to certain things in your marriage.
You need to act and behave maturely for your home to settle.
Many times, you need to focus on each other strengths, focus on what your spouse does right.
Remember, you are two imperfect people, you need to love one another perfectly the way Jesus loves you.
Don’t let revenge eat up your heart, forgive readily, and don’t hold on to past wrongs of your spouses.
Your marriage matters, do everything in your power to make it work.
Apply the principles of marriage in your marriage: Forgive, trust, be transparent, love, communicate effectively, spend time together, praise one another, avoid the involvement of the third party, be contented, be committed, be prayerful, date regularly, have good sex, plan and do things together…
Yes, you will encounter challenges in your marriage, stay together to conquer and overcome challenges.
Lean on God and don’t give chance to the devil to gain access to your home.
Remember, the devil your enemy roaring like a lion looking for homes and marriages to destroy -1 Peter 5:8
Don’t follow human philosophy or what is in vogue to run your marriage.
Follow God’s standards according to His word – Ephesians 5:21-33, Provers 18:22, Proverbs 5:19…
