1) A CHANGE OF ENVIRONMENT
Perhaps you two should consider stepping out of your usual schedule and routes and experience something new to create new memories. Travel, go for a road trip, go to a different destination for a date, go for a holiday, go visit someone or something inspiring. A change of scenery can inspire freshness in you
2) A CHANGE OF CONVERSATIONS
Perhaps you two need to find new topics to talk about. Break the monotony. Start talking about other things besides issues and the same old drama, and then you will see you two going back to warm conversations
3) A CHANGE OF LOOK
Change your hairstyle, your look, your lingerie, your grooming; let your spouse see you in a different light. Don’t be looking the same many years later. Give your spouse something pleasant to look at
4) A CHANGE OF ATTITUDE
Positive change won’t come into your marriage if you are still holding on to the same mindset of past offences, grudges, marriage is tough, and exhaustion. Inject some life back into your love. Stop carrying around negativity
5) A CHANGE OF INTELLECT
Are you growing intellectually? Or years later, you are still at the same level maturity? No, grow, go to school if you can, read books, research, be knowledgeable, and expand your perspective in life. This will create a sense of mystery, discovery, and richness in your interactions
6) A CHANGE OF SEX POSITION
You may have your favourite sex position, but sometimes switch it up. Try something different, experiment, try making love in a different location, have some adventure, massage each other, and explore the body. Have an affair with your spouse
7) A CHANGE OF CHURCH
If the church services you go to are not making you or your children grow and you see no change in leadership, why stay there? Your family is the one on the losing end. Go to a church where you grow
8) A CHANGE OF STRATEGY
If shouting at your spouse, silent treatment, and placing demands have not worked in getting solutions in your marriage, try a different approach. Try counselling, try being peaceful, try not focusing on what your spouse is doing wrong, and start to appreciate what your spouse is doing right
9) A CHANGE OF FRIENDS
Sometimes, the company you keep is the biggest threat to your marriage. The sooner you cut off some people in your life, the sooner your marriage will be given room to heal and grow
