Emotional active people don’t quit when they ought to.
Emotion has a way it subjects one to accept pains and failures, and still can’t accept to deal with them.
“Realities can still be untrue”.
Have you been in a relationship and you are certain that your partner is not living up to expectation, and he or she is totally opposite of what you wanted but you still don’t want to accept it?.
You can get to a point in life where your pains suddenly become your accepted realities. You brace yourself up enough to take them as what God has purposed for you.
At this point, you might feel that there is no need to fight to see if you can win a change but the truth is, you are not facing realities you think you are facing. You are just racing with your feelings thinking that you are making a progress.
Emotion makes you think that you are just obeying the rules of love and tolerance.
Sometime ago, a woman with a battered face asked the court not to jail her abusive husband because she was still in love with him. To her, she is protecting the man she loved but failed to see the reality that there was never love to be protected.
Whatever that makes you feel vulnerable to help yourself will never make you see realities.
A man said to me, ‘five of my closest friends have slept with her while I was engaged to her. It broke my heart but I can’t let her go”. This man refused to see realities. They got married and just two years into the marriage, he drank himself to death from pains she caused for him. And she stayed alive and continued her way of life.
Emotion lies a lot. This is why you need to sit yourself down and examine every decision you have to make when your feelings are crazy about someone. That moment of insanity can ruin your next fifty years with no hope of recovery.
