Many young men want to become a great man, and not just that, but also a great lover or husband. But their lifestyle is the opposite of what they want to be. The fact that you are not ready for marriage now doesn’t mean you should play or use any woman or live any reckless life and still want to settle down as a great husband when you marry.
Being a husband doesn’t just happen when you get married. Become a great boyfriend, else you will have to fast and pray to God that your daughter never dates or gets into a relationship with a guy like you.
As a man, your biggest mistake is to give another person the opportunity to make your woman happy or put smiles on their face. It is not about sacking men from her or preventing her from knowing or seeing men but by doing what will make her happy or put smiles on her face. If you fail to do that, you end up pushing her into looking for happiness outside the marriage.
If you are dating a man who is a miser, who cannot give, who is too busy for you, doesn’t pay attention to your feelings, needs, you are with the wrong person.
A godly woman wants a man that will be a model for his children;
So as a man first become that man you want your sons to be and the man you want your daughter to bring home one day as a husband. When you learn to become such a man, you can be sure you children will make a good choice when it comes to marriage and your wife will also be proud of you.
Fourthly, being a great husband is being a faithful man, a man of integrity, who knows the value of his family and the woman he is married to. Such a man doesn’t cheat and play smart. Women have intuition, even when they have no evidence you are cheating on them, they can feel it. Never underestimate your woman’s ability to find out the truth.
She wants a husband man who needs no reason to love his wife and family but thousands of reasons to leave her or divorce. He doesn’t go around looking for reasons to leave knowing he will need thousands if he has to do that. Because of that mindset, he is committed to his wife and family and gives out his best.