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TIPS TO CONSIDER BEFORE MARRIAGE

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Single folks, a few points to remember as you get close to marriage. There are many more but this is a good start!

1) Be prayerful. Earnestly seek the face of God concerning who you want to marry. It doesn’t matter how well you get along or how nice the person is; don’t let your feelings replace the need for you to pray about it. Not praying about this life transforming decision is careless!! Don’t just pray; be sensitive to His leading!

2) Be observant. Pay attention to the details about that lady/gentleman. Point out any concerns with wisdom.

3) Gather your facts; don’t move based on what you’re hoping or wishing for, move based on what you KNOW about them.

4) Be real. If things are not flowing well no matter how hard you have tried, tell yourself the truth and let the relationship become history. Don’t force it when it’s clearly not working.

5) Be truthful. Don’t build your relationship on lies. Be open and honest about who you are. Don’t let your character become questionable.

6) Seek counsel. Don’t carry on in a relationship and into marriage without any form of counseling. VERY UNWISE! Let other people know about the relationship and give their observations. They will more than likely call your attention to certain areas you have never even thought about. In the multitude of counselors, there is safety! But please note that when seeking for counsel, be wise concerning who you speak to. Some counselors make things worse.

7) Be futuristic. Marriage will not just affect you today, it affects the future. It determines the direction of your life. You should know their vision, plans, goals, potentials, work ethic, outlook on life, etc. If he or she is not adding any value to you now, what do you expect in the future? If he/she is troublesome or foul mouthed now, what will the next few years be like for you?

If they are not bothered about the things of God and you are, think twice! In all this, ensure you also examine yourself. Make sure the qualities you desire in a spouse are qualities you also clearly possess! Wishing you God’s best!

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