It is rather unfortunate that lots of men out there do not know what women want or do not understand women. She is not looking for a man who can give her all his time; such a man is either idle or lazy. She is looking for a hardworking man, a man who can provide for her and his family, which requires a man who needs to work, call hustle if you want.
She is not looking for a man to be on the phone with her every minute. She is not lazy and idle, she has things to do that needs time. She is not looking for a dead man, so she won’t suffocate him.
She is also looking for a man who loves and values her and such a man will show his love by making time for her out of his busy day or life. A man who doesn’t love you only uses you, and she is not looking for a man to use her. She is not a thing or device you put on when you have a use for it and put it off when you are done.
She needs a man she can talk to, so she knows who he is, what he wants, how to relate to him, how to treat him and how to help him because she is his help mate. She needs a man who also listens to understand her and know what she truly wants. Not a man who thinks for her, manipulates her, dictates to her.
Men or boys who do not understand women think she wants him to spend all his time and day with her, talking to her all day. If you let your woman know which time of day you can be available for her, even if it’s 30 mins, she won’t bother you during your busy or working time.
In conclusion, “A truly good wife is the most precious treasure a man can find! Her husband depends on her, and she never lets him down.” – Proverbs 31:10-11 (CEV).
Please don’t forget to spread the good news. Someone out there needs it. This is your small way of blessing them.
