The kind of tone you use in your marriage is as important as the kind of things you say.
What you’re saying maybe right but once the tone you use is wrong then it will nullify the rightness of what you are trying to communicate.
The tone used in giving an advice is quite different from the tool used in giving a command.
Sir, you can’t be advising your wife and using a harsh tone while you expect her to gladly comply with your harsh advice.
Speak in a low voice; do not shout for your spouse is not deaf. Shouting is a sign of immaturity. Speak kindly, and don’t raise your voice.
Yes, temper may rise at some point but you have to train yourself to do away with the temple so that you can communicate in wisdom and love to your spouse