1) A clear sign that clears your doubts: God has never and will never stop working through signs. Through signs, one is able to clearly understand the will and purpose of God for their life with regard to the choice of a marriage partner. With signs, however, one has to exercise wisdom and lots of great caution to ensure that the enemy does not take advantage of their thoughts and emotions. If you have walked with God for years, then it is easy to deal with God on the platform of signs. If you are a new believer, this is a path you should dread. The enemy is always a master of manipulation in this area if one is not experienced.
2) The presence of an inner witness: The bible is clear that the Spirit of God bears witness with our spirit man. Anytime you want to confirm that the voice you heard and the instruction you received is from God, listen to know whether there is a witness within your spirit. Does your spirit agree with the spirit of God from deep within you. If there is no witness within you, then God is probably not into the decision you are about to make. When there is an inner witness within your spirit, there is a part of you that will either agree or disagree with the decision you are about to make. The secret is just to be sensitive, and you will know whether or not your spirit and the spirit of God are in agreement.
3) The peace of God will overwhelm you after the decision: Have you received peace after saying yes to that proposal? Are you still a part of you not into the relationship, and you’re only buying forcing yourself? If there is one definite attribute of God’s thing, He is not an author of confusion. There is no way God will allow you to get married to someone or marry someone and not give you peace of mind. If you haven’t received peace, then it’s probably a clear sign that you are all alone and that God is not into the whole idea.
4) The feeling of being complete and not drained: Is that relationship building you up or draining all your energy? God knows that a relationship should build you up, and God will bring to you a person that compliments you and not the other way round. God is not into the relationship if all it does is draining all your energy.
5) You will not be forced, and love will be natural: God will not force you into doing things that are not of your desire. God is not that wicked. God will not force you to marry someone you don’t want. If God is in a relationship, the chemistry will be natural and not forced to work.
6) People that fear God will support the union: The moment you notice everyone is against your marriage, especially people that have a right standing with God, then there is a problem. If God is in the union, He will have a few people who will see it from God’s perspective. Opposition should not just be taken lightly. When many men and women of God are against your union, try and find out what the problem is from God.
