Sometimes we put unnecessary pressure on ourselves which does not only run us into depression but into a wrong relationships. The fact that all your class, course or age mates are getting married does not mean there is something wrong with you.
Being with someone in the same class or doing the same course does not mean you are all the same. Each one of us is unique and different. Your dress, shoe size, styles, etc show how different you are even though you share a class. Born on the same day does not mean you carry the same purpose or genes. You might have met in life due to schooling or friendship but it does not make you the same.
Everyone has their life, path, calling, purpose and timing or clock. If your friend’s time has come for them to get married, be happy for them, wait for yours. Their marriage won’t deny you yours so why are you worried?
The question you should be asking yourself is that, am I ready for marriage; a relationship that lasts a life time; not just about the fun fair and celebration associated with one getting married.
Examine your strengths, capabilities and weaknesses if you have what it takes to keep a successful relationship. If there is something to work on, do that religiously and wait on the Lord for your turn.
The marriage you want is not from your friends or family but from God. Don’t think for God, do your part and God will show up for He is always on time. In His time, He makes all things beautiful.
In conclusion, “I have observed something else under the sun. The fastest runner doesn’t always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn’t always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don’t always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time” – Ecclesiastes 9:11 (NLT)