Relationship between man and woman is a mysterious thing. It can only be compared to the journey of green snakes in green grass.
This mystery makes it difficult for girls to seek counsel when necessary. But in most cases, they seek advice when it has become too late.
There are about 4 things that cage a woman to a man. These 4 things are like cancerous traps that keep ladies in bondage. They are sugar coated tongue, riches, love, and bedroom power.
Sugar-coated tongue is one thing that has attracted some women to men. Men are highly gifted in speech when it comes to wooing women to themselves.
Women are turned on with such good speeches, especially when it comes to love and romance. This is the downfall of some ladies.
75% of women are in the hands of men because of sugar coated tongue. “I thought he was sincere, but I never knew he was a liar.” This statement has always been the case. All that glitters are not gold.
The second is riches. No one wants to identify with a pauper. But there is a need to note that there are poor people today who are potentially rich. They have a bright future because of the foundation they had laid for themselves through hard work and resilience.
How many ladies today are slaves to rich men; and how many are their victims. We here almost every day of ladies dying mysterious deaths as a result of love for riches. The Scriptures said it all
“Those who want to get rich (especially quick) fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction.” 1 Tim. 6:9.
Women like gifts a lot. Some have married the wrong husband because of riches, and they are living in hell, regretting and bemoaning their situation without a way out.
Some say he loves me so much. But love is not enough to sustain marriage or any relationship. People should learn to define love, lust, infatuation, and obsession. What’s the difference?
Love can expire, but qualities don’t, and good qualities are the oil that stimulates and makes love last for a long and lifetime. There are qualities that would make a lasting and enduring love.
Practice forgiveness. Offences are unavoidable. When one’s beloved does something hurtful, it could result in anger, resentment, and blame. These are normal reactions. But one must learn to forgive and overlook at times.
Be realistic and honest: don’t pretend and fake l love. Every long-term relationship will have its share of disappointments; develop rituals that will keep the relationship going.
Learn to lend a listening ear. Since offences must come, even if you fight, fight fair, and go for help if you’re stuck.
Finally, some ladies are stuck in a relationship because of bedroom power. Nothing cages a woman to a relationship like when the husband is very good at bed.
I heard of a woman who takes pleasure in fighting with her husband. She noted that she likes how the husband pets, cuddles, and begs her for pardon after having a fight. She enjoys the after-mat of the fight. Could there be anything like love-fight?
In spite of all these, some ladies are looking for a way out of their relationships. But each time they want to quit, the husband will come pleading, and before you say jack, she is pregnant with another child.
If you are a woman in relationship and your partner is very good in bed, it will be difficult for you to forget the man in a hurry, even if you did not marry him, the memory lingers. Many ladies are slaves for sexual satisfaction.
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” James 1:5.
