Guys, we can be funny at times, wanting to eat our cake and have it. We sometimes want to have it all. You want the size of Bunmi, but you don’t want Bunmi because she’s not very beautiful, so you ignore her.
You love the beauty of Juliet, oya pray about Juliet, mbanu, you don’t want Juliet, she’s too short, so you don’t even look to that direction
You like the shape of Sylvia, oya marry Sylvia, no oh, she talks too much
You want to combine characters and body structures of from different ladies and merge it into one person, well done Sir, we will bring clay for you to mould your own human being..
Many Bechelors are single today because of this habit, it may seem odd but it’s a reality, they will like a lady, but will cross her off because of one structural defect that they saw in another lady .
They keep searching for a lady that has everything, next week some will be 40. Manchelors and Pachelors
They forget that no body is perfect,
Learn to accept this fact, that the average lady will not have it all.
Only you want her to be chubby in the right places,
She should have coke bottle shape, perfect white teeth, no stretch mark, with big front and back, and yet slim, flat tummy, with long legs, and fine face pointed nose, holy ghost filled and tongue speaking, studied medicine and surgery, can’t you see that you are a thief Sir?
Can’t you see how unrealistic your expectations are?
So what if she doesn’t have everything? at least she has some things,…
This “Men are MOVED by sight” is now MOVING some Men into becoming unnecessarily choosy, and it’s unnecessary.
Dear Brother in Christ,
Don’t become TOO picky. Allow God lead you.