Never compare your spouse with anybody at all. Nobody is perfect, those people you comparing your spouse with have their own short come. Your spouse is still better than those people in some ways.
The man who compares his wife to another woman is not wise enough and is planning to send his wife out. And the wife who compares her husband with another man is just trying to destroy her own home.Didn’t you see him/her before you got married to him or her? The person you compare your wife with is definitely not perfect.
For you to enjoy your home, just try to see your spouse as imperfect man/woman and work towards having a perfect marriage. Correct each other with LOVE and UNDERSTANDING that is when you can make your spouse to be perfect and see the perfection in him/her.