Many men and women have experienced ill-fated relationship experiences in different ways, making them condemn themselves in different ways based on their experiences.
Mismanagement of relationships with the opposite sex does not make the opposite sex bad. Some men see women as devils. In the same way, some women see men as devils. All boils down to mismanagement of relationships.
No experience is a standard to experience. While your experience with the opposite sex, especially women, may have been ill-fated, there are still good men and women who are in successful relationships, not because it’s perfect but because they understand and manage themselves well.
That your girlfriend or wife is bad does not make all women bad; and that your boyfriend or husband is bad does not make all men bad. There are good men and women, good wives and good husbands out dear.
In my posts, when you talk good about men, some women will get mad and call my writeup trash, and especially some men wouldn’t want to hear anything good about women. All because of one ill-fated relationship or the other.
When a relationship with the opposite sex, especially that of women, is taken too far, Proverbs 31:3 may be the case. “Do not spend your strength on women, your vigour on those who ruin kings.”
No woman is created bad. When a woman becomes bad, a survey of the situation will show that somehow the woman was spoiled by a man. Men are always the corrupting factor in the life of women.
Many girls who grow up to become corrupt and wayward were exposed to wildlife by their male counterparts.
Most girls who are into prostitution, drugs, smoking, robbery, and gangsterism, were introduced into it by their boyfriends or ladies who are into it who were also introduced into it by their relationship with men.
Women can be likened to wine. Love in excess for wine is capable of destroying a man. See Proverbs 20:1. “Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise.”
The insatiable love for women can equally bring a man down. See Proverbs 31:3. “Do not spend your strength on women, your vigour on those who ruin kings.”
When a relationship with the opposite sex, especially that of a woman, is taken too far, one may go down for it. Many men have been rendered useless for their insatiable love for women.
My dear, don’t throw away all men or all women because of a relationship that you mismanaged in the past, or you are mismanaging in the present.
If you are a victim of an ill-fated opposite sex relationship, sorry about your experience, but the truth must be told as your experience can not be a standard for other opposite sex relationships
In Romans 3:22-24, we read: “This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”
