It can be really frustrating when a man who is not a wine drinker ends up in beer parlour. While some factors instigates that, his partner has a role to play
1) FOOD : The best way to keep your man is to keep his tummy Every man is disappointed when he comes home from days job and there is no food in the house. If this becomes persistent, he may find himself branching to the nearest bear parlour to eat and drink.
2) NAGGING WIFE : A man needs rest from days job. He should be left alone to relax. After taking his meal, he needs sleep. It is only after he has woken up that the wife can talk to him, her words should be brief. Most wives immediately bother their husband with Nepa bill, house rent, junior failure at school, school fees etc immediately he comes back from work. Others immediately raise controversial issues. All these keep sending the man one message – “to get peace” leave this house”
3) APPEARANCE: Ladies have this tendency of ignoring their appearance shortly after marriage. They no longer check their weight. They tie wrappers more often. All these are steps away in shifting ones partner away. He might start admiring other ladies. Beer parlour owners now recruits them.
4) BOSS : Are you older than your husband? Don’t show it. Are you more educated while he is an illiterate? If yes, learn to speak pidgin or native language when together. Do you earn more than him? others shouldn’t know. Are you stronger than him? Never lay your hand on him. All men are proud. They love being in charge. Never make them look inferior to you else he avoids you.
