The marriage rises and falls on the man because he is the rock, the head and the driver of the family. The wife is a helper and a companion. Men should strive to be the pillar and stabilizer of the home and this can only happen if he knows how to BEAT his wife:
B-BRING OUT THE PRINCESS IN HER:
Every woman wants to be treated as the best and the only queen on the earth. A husband must pamper, praise, pardon and promote his wife. He must provide for her and protect her.
E-EMPOWER HER: That a woman marries man does not mean that her dreams will be buried in a man’s home. Help her to to have a good job, education, work or business and maximize her full potentials in her generation.
A-AFFECTION RELOADED: Women are very emotional, so husbands must let their wives hear love (tell her often how you love her); see love (buy gifts for her always like perfume, sharwama, ice cream, a car or a good phone); Wives want to also feel the love of their husbands (bros, be there in the bedroom always not just for love making but to hold her and be with her )
T-TENDERNESS: The worst thing every woman hate is a man that talks to her in harsh tone. Never ever beat your wife physically because she is your own body. Be tender to her in words and actions.
HOW TO SLAP YOUR HUSBAND DAILY…
Married women are the necks that will help their husbands to carry the homes or they will be pains in their necks. They ought to be the home makers not home wreckers. They are suppose to gladden their hearts by their words and actions not to break their hearts and dispatch them to early graves. A good wife must SLAP her husband every day.
S=SUBMIT TO HIM. Submitting to your husband does not mean you will be a doormat or an individual with an identity. It simply means that you’re a godly woman that recognized God given authority. If you can leave your parents and adopt his surname and live with him, then see him as your leader. You may be more educated, wealthier and more religious but obey God that asks you to submit to him.
L=LOVE HIS FAMILY MEMBERS. Some In-laws can behave like outlaws but true love conquers all injustice and persecutions. A wife that truly accepts, love and care for the family members of her husband will live long in that home and will always have the respect of her husband. Love them.
A=ASSIST HIM. God told Adam that he will give him a HELPER. A helper also means assistant, aide, helpmate, help-meet, deputy, auxiliary, right-hand woman, coworker, workmate, teammate, associate, colleague and partner. Help him emotionally, spiritually and financially. Some women who earn more than their husbands are stingy and selfish. Others refuse to work or do business in order to help the man. Once again, God says to Adam “ I will give you a helper” not an ATM CARD or someone that stays at home all day watching films on television.
P=PAMPER HIM. All men are Mama’s boys. Treat him like your first boyfriend. Pamper him with tender loving care. Talk to him with love and respect. Correct him with affection and never nag or criticize him all the time. Know how and when to prepare his best foods. Make his birthday and the wedding anniversary a celebration of love. Shower him with gifts like underwear, singlet, aftershave creams and perfumes. Never ever slap him but remain pretty and presentable to him as his own PRINCESS.
Never forget: ”A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”- Proverbs 14:1.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name.