Many relationships out there especially marriages are loveless, the romance is either dead or missing. Both couples can feel there is something missing but nothing much is done to bring the romance back alive.
This is one reason why many partners or spouses end up cheating on their partner. They know how good the man or woman is but the passion that drives the relationship is dead. They keep the relationship and look for the passion elsewhere instead of working on how to ignite the passion or romance back into the relationship.
People in relationships need to be aware of how different men and women are and how different their needs are. Unfortunately, not all couples know this.
Men are treating women as they would men; giving his partner his needs instead of her needs. The same way women are treating men as women.
A man is looking for a woman to initiate sex, if that expectation is not met it frustrates him. He wants his woman to touch him, massage him, tickle him, play with his body, etc.
The woman is looking for her man to express how he feels about her, share time with her, listen to her, hug her, cuddle, give her gifts and help her with her chores, etc.
Both men and women are giving their partner what they need instead of giving their partner what he or she needs. If men meet the emotional needs of their women by loving her emotionally, she will easily meet the physical needs of the man.
The more a man learns about her woman and how to make her happy, the more she is drawn to him physically. Women find it difficult to be physical with a man who is not emotional with them. If she doesn’t feel loved, your foreplay won’t turn her on.
So, when it comes to sex and you don’t like how your woman is behaving or acting, examine how you treat her. Achieving romance in your relationship is about how you meet the needs of your partner. Men should treat women as women and women should treat men as men.
Give your partner their favorite food and not yours, that is how you make them happy with you. If you don’t know your partner’s favorite, pay attention to what he or she complains about, pay attention to their request or ask for help.
In conclusion, “Then those who were sad when they planted will be happy when they gather the harvest!” – Psalm 126:5 (ERV).
