Love, I repeat, is NOT Enough.
Never allow your emotions blind you from noticing the beast in him.
Oh! I love him so much… I can’t breathe a second without him…
Lover bird, wake up from your fantasy and face the reality of the true nature of this man…
By the time he gets married to you, and you begin to notice his uncultured attitude, you will be like;
Ah God… I never knew he was like this…. Mike, you have changed… No ma, Mike never changed. You are the one who failed to discover him while courting.
Red flag 1
How can a man comfortably slap you each time you offend him, and because he comes back to apologize with a gift you call that love?
In your emotional voice: “I still love him, he will change!!” He was just too angry to control his anger at that moment. Really? Hmm, you are playing with liquid fire.
How can a man you call your love shout and yell at you in public because of a little mistake? Not minding who and who is watching, yet you wish to marry him like that…
Excuse me, do you think he respects and regards you at all? No matter your offence, is he supposed to shout you down in the public and make you look like a big fool out there? Dovy Lovy…. put love and emotions aside, and face reality!
A man you can’t talk to, you can’t correct, you can’t question his actions. No matter how wrong he is, he still waits for you to apologize. He can’t freely make calls around you. He lies with ease…
He is so secretive… You can’t predict his ways… The few of his relatives he has introduced you to don’t even regard you.. He can’t tolerate your excesses at all without dashing you some slaps… He kept making you feel like you were the lucky one to have him out of 100 ladies around him…
STILL…. In the name of “I want to be married and be called” Mrs. Somebody, I’m tired of this single life, Sister, you still blindly went on to marry him! I give you 1 month after your wedding. U WILL SOON BE WISHING TO BE SINGLE AGAIN.
With all the warnings upon warnings from your family and friends, you still went on… In the name of HE WILL Change…
You will report tire to relationship counsellors your marriage challenges.
