I remember sometime ago, a married man who’s a credible public speaker told me that if he had the opportunity to marry again, he wouldn’t marry his current wife. I was perplexed because this man looks fine with his wife on the outside.
He told me they are basically fine as partners but that she doesn’t just fit into his vision; as an inspirational public speaker and counselor; at least his wife is expected to have some sense; be able to make insightful statements. She doesn’t have to be a counselor or inspirational speaker but at least, he should be proud of her in public.
Imagine if Mitchelle Obama were some empty slay queen.. If she was just a beautiful log of feminine matter..
Believe me, Obama won’t flaunt her that way, Obama won’t even be so heard of that way, and probably would not be so loved by many.
Now here’s the point,
I think many people marry for where they are, forgetting where they are going and when they reach their destination, they realise the reality of their mistake.
See, getting a partner is not what you do according to your current condition.
It’s like buying a car after asking yourself:
“I just have #350,000”
“Let me buy a V-Boot”
Then, after buying a V-Boot, you expect the ability of a Ferrari from it.
It doesn’t work that way.
You must marry according to your future destiny not your current condition.
Your partner must carry the elements that suits the height of your success and purpose.
You don’t marry according to your capacity now because your capacity will evolve and you’ll get somewhere greater in life.
Do you see your partner fitting that person you will become? I know you love him, you love her, but love is not all.
There’s something about CLASS in human relationships..
Does He or She have the SEED of CLASS that fits your future?
They don’t have to be everything right now, but looking at them and their perspectives, do you see them impressing your future?
I know the height I want to attain
