(A word from a friend) You might be thinking it’s hard to get over the man you thought you love, but you won’t know it until you try. As women, we tend to continue relationships that destroy who we are physically, socially and mentally. We give up our individuality, happiness, families, friends, pride, wealth and success- in order to satisfy the man in our lives.
Lets face it girls, we are strong and can achieve so much without anyone’s help but Gods, so why let someone destroy who you are or what you have worked hard for or what you have worked very hard to become? Let’s appreciate, love and believe in ourselves. Elizabeth Nkau said: “I cooked and cleaned for him, stopped talking to all my male friends, came home early to him, bore a baby for him and what did I get?
A promise to get married, which never happened. Two other babies from another woman, a string of girlfriends calling his house and a Death sentence of HIV/ Aids. Was it all worth it? No! I knew all along that he was cheating on me, but I stayed because I loved him. I thought i understood the word love. I never realized he didn’t even love me. A man who cheats does not love you, he just likes you.
Does he even like you? “I am waiting for my last breath as I lie in my bed, helpless, knowing I will leave my child without a mother.”-Elizabeth Nkau. Every night, someone thinks about you before he/ she goes to bed. At least fifteen people in this world love you. The only reason someone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.
There are at least two people in this world that would die for you. You mean the world to someone. Someone that you don’t even know he exists, loves you. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look. Always remember the compliments you have received. Forget the rude remarks because you never fell for their deceitful lies. A lady was talking to me on 2go.
She said it seems all the guys know her weakness, because if they touch her once, poof, she is in bed with them! And when they are through with her body, they pick their bag and go. Is this the kind of life you want? To become men’s bitch all because of the Love you don’t even understand? Be strong, independent, believe in yourself and have a good focus. Stop lurking around an unnecessary relationships or friendship.
Some of you ladies are in your current relationship because you don’t want to be lonely. Some of you just because everybody is having boyfriend, you also jumps into it. And what have you gotten out of it? Being their dirty bitch, always. He sleeps with you, beats you, he calls you name and monitors you around. He can have another girl but you cannot have any other friends again. Is this what you really want? Stop Being Someone’s Bitch Anymore. A Word Is Always Enough For The Wise!
