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SHOULD YOU ALWAYS CORRECT YOUR SPOUSE?

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If he or she really is correcting you all the time, then the chances of them being right 100% of the time are slim. I’ve known people like this, who are “experts” on everything and try to make themselves feel better by putting others down. Some do it by yelling or insulting, while those who fancy themselves “cultured” or “educated” do it by “correcting”. To correct your spouse is ok, but if it’s constant then that is not acceptable.

By constantly correcting your spouse, you are trying to assert control and shake your confidence in yourself.
Stop thinking that your way is the “right” way. If your spouse does something differently, it does not mean that it’s wrong. When a wife insists on having her own way, she is in essence saying, “I have to be in control”.

I want you to learn a lesson from Mr. Dan and his wife Agnes: He said, “I’m a man. When my wife “corrects” me, I’ve learned to say, “You are right, I’m wrong, let’s move on”. My wife no longer has anyone to argue with and she knows I’m not serious. In the beginning, she’d say, “You’re just saying that! You don’t think you are wrong at all!” I’d smile and say, “You are right, I am wrong.

Let’s move on”. Sometimes I’d say, “Hon, you are always right and I’m always wrong. Let’s move on”. Eventually, she’d be so frustrated with my smile and answer she’d go into the silent treatment for three days. Always three days. During those three day, I’d continue living my life as I always did. I’d say, “Should we have chicken tonight?”

No answer. “Good, I hate chicken (she loves chicken), let’s get a pizza (she hates pizza)” and I’d order a pizza. During those three days I lived like I did when I was single. It drove her nearly insane. Eventually she stopped “correcting me” and her silent treatments barely last a day. She thinks that by shortening her silent treatments it is preventing me from enjoying the single life. Worked for me”.

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