Because he is in love with you. When a man is genuinely and deeply in love with a woman, he desires and always wants to make love to her. It is in every man. It is the male instinct!
A godly guy won’t ask you for sex BEFORE marriage, not because he has no chemistry or sexual attraction for you but because he loves you too much to damage you spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and physically!
At a time in my relationship with Wunmi, I thought he was abnormal! He would sit glued to his chair and admire me from afar! I thought I wasn’t sexually attractive to him at all until we got married and experience his very sexual side.
He told me later, he had high chemistry for me while in courtship but he saw it as a dishonour to God, my parents, guardians, Pastors and all authority figures in my life to have sex with me without paying the price of marriage. What a man!
In marriage, your husband will ask for regular sex if he loves you. You should be happy because he considers you very beautiful, his only turn on, sexy and highly irresistible.
He is asking for regular sex because he wants to tell you, he loves you.
He has taken good care of you and is still doing so and needs to “reap” where he had “sown” and rightly so. Just as you request to be taken good care of when you meet all his needs.
Having sex with you comforts him especially when going through challenging times or difficulties.
It reassures him of his manhood.
He needs to feel loved, accepted, admired, needed and enjoyed.
It relieves him of sexual pressure and helps him focus on his job/business/ministry/career/vision/goals so he can make more money and take good care of you.
It fulfills him especially when you enjoy him and tell him so.
Sexually fulfilled men are very happy men.
Take very good care of your husband in bed and he will ensure he takes very good care of you financially and physically. As much as in his capacity, he will ensure you don’t lack.
Men don’t marry women for sex but sexual fulfilment is part of they get married.
Meet this very deep need and become the only woman he is madly in love with, totally adores and will cherish for the rest of his life!
May your sex life not become boring!
May your man be happy he married you!
May your bed be forever warm, inviting, seductive and welcoming to your man.
Your husband, not your fiancé!
SEX IS STRICTLY FOR THE MARRIED!
