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SOME SINGLES ARE JUST LOOKING FOR RELATIONSHIP STATUS

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I can confidently say that lots of single men and women are just looking for someone who will help change their present single status to Relationship or Married and nothing more. Relationships or marriage goes beyond titles or status. It is not about “me too I am married” or “me too I get someone”.

It is about adding value to each other’s lives, it is about bringing a positive change into each other’s lives. The scripture said “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord” – Proverbs 18:22 (NIV). What good are you bringing into your new relationship? What is good about you that would make your partner conclude they have received blessings from God or God has favoured them?

You are not working but busily looking for a spouse, do you know you are going to be a burden to them? Do you know you are going to be a liability to them? Do you know you are going to be the opposite of “good” to them? No wonder some relationships feel as if one was cursed as soon as they enter into the relationship.

You have bad attitudes and behaviour but you are busily looking for a spouse, have you asked yourself, what good things are you sending into the relationship you are seeking? Are you going to add or subtract?

Marriage is such a good thing that is why the Lord said it is not good for a man to be alone. Until you add value to yourself, and become “good” yourself, forget about marriage else what you go for is not what God wants for you. And the evidence is that, when you get into such a relationship, it won’t feel like what God wants for us. That is where you blame others for your woes.

Some singles think once they are working, earning and can buy the beautiful dresses and brand themselves it means they are good for marriage. You can change your personality with what you wear, by your lifestyles but that is not enough to bring a change into another person’s life when you get into marriage. It takes a beautiful behaviour and attitude to bring a change into one’s life.

Your beautiful words and actions have a more lasting impact on your relationship than your beautiful dresses do. Your soul is equally important and needs to be worked on for marriage, not just your body.

Life and marriage have something in common and it’s called “CHANGE”. Your life and marriage gets better with change. You can choose the richest partner, most beautiful and wonderful partner but if you don’t work on yourself, your relationship wouldn’t work.

To those who keep saying all the men coming my way are not good, I submit to you, you need to work on yourself, there is something about you that must change. Until then, you won’t experience the kind of relationship you want.

For those who threaten to leave your relationship or marriage for a new one, it is not about the new partner, it is about what you can change in your current relationship. Until you work on yourselves, when you bring in a new partner, the value will still be the same.

In conclusion “a wise man will hear and will increase learning, and a man of understanding will attain wise counsel” – Proverbs 1:5 (MEV).

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