If you are not happy in your marriage, it is a disruption in every other aspect of your life”
Anyone who claims to be happy in life when his or her marriage is not in good shape is trying to deceive everyone.
Marilyn Munroe was the most celebrated sex symbol actress with numerous marriages, divorces and datings. She had fame, money and applause but her suicide note read, ‘I was persecuted by loneliness’.
When our marriage is not working, We may publicly pretend that we are happy but deep inside us, we are not true to that outward appearance.
I am yet to see a man or woman who loves a bad marriage.
People may act as if they don’t give a damn but they always do.
An unhappy marriage is an unhappy life.
People around you who are struggling in their marriages need your prayers. Don’t wait till they ask before you start encouraging and praying for them. They could smile the most but there is a big pain crawling inside them. The smile you see is a cover.
I have been able to counsel over 5000 men and women in my counselling and mentorship career. I can tell you vividly that if devil has a wife and they both don’t agree, it will break him down too.
When most people act as if it doesn’t touch them, it has already broken them down.
That a man wants his wife out of his life does not mean that her absence is a blessing to him. I have seen men lived short life after their bad wives were gone. The effect of a bad marriage does not likely end with divorce or separation. Once the poison has entered inside the system, how far you throw away the poison bottle does not change what happens after.
Marriage problem is like a hole in our breath. Each time you want to live well, it cuts off your air source.
If anyone desires a better marriage, it is all about HABIT.
A successful marriage is not accidental. It is intentional.
Never assume that something has to work. You have to make it work.
Sometimes, we love to talk about things rather than doing them. A successful marriage is about doing and not about assuming.
No matter how smart and spiritual you are, the problem in your marriage must weigh you down.
Marriage is made for two people who usually agree and when that character of agreement stops happening, that marriage will begin to produce unhappy life. Just like when our body stops responding to wate and food. That body will obviously look sick and lose strenght.
If you are committed to quality life, that is what you will eventually get. A successful marriage is a sacrifice.
