A MUST READ For singles, intending couples and married
The wisdom of the present day harsh economic reality in Nigeria and many countries demands that singles, intending couples and married;
✓ Plan, plan and plan their future together and make provisions for uncertainties. Marriage is a place where realities finds its true and unique expression.
✓ Engage in effective communication as there is tendency to avoid each other due to pressure, financial responsibilities, etc. Communication gap kills marriage. In marriage silence is not golden.
✓ Create time out of their tight schedule for each other. Go for couple’s time out, retreat, seminar, conference etc.
✓ Engage in hot and romantic sex (strictly for the married) in order to keep the fire burning. This is not the time for frivolities, the “other room business” must be active I mean real activities.
✓ Singles and intending couples who are waiting for the “right” time to marry because of finance or the “big and talk of the town wedding mentality” should sit down and learn how to do something “big in a small way” wedding is just a day, marriage is the real deal. Instead of engaging in premarital sex, carry body go altar.
✓ If you are seriously single and searching, don’t rush! Take your time. Use this period to prepare effectively spiritually, emotionally, mentally and financially. Delay is not denial. Don’t allow societal, friends and family pressure push you into marriage, when the chips are down “na only you go Waka come o”
✓ Singles, intending couples and the married (man and woman) must be intentional about diversification. It is dangerous to have one source of income, multiple streams of income is the way to go! This is not the time for guys to be mounting pressure on ladies to “marry you” using prophecies and revelations, even if Angels brought her name to you, make sure you bring something to the table.
Single Ladies in this age and time should “up their games” don’t come into marriage with “parasitic mindset” marriage is not a poverty alleviation programme Biko! If you are married already, even if you decides to be a full house wife it is not a licence to life of irresponsibility, make sure you have something doing.
Husbands do the needful and rise up to the occasion. Stop bragging and shouting “I am the head” without responsibly and impactfully making a show of it!
On a final note beautiful people ❤️, we will continue to pray as regards finance, protection (especially in Nigeria), wisdom etc but we must be intentional about “walking our talk too”
God is not a magician!
My 1 dollar!
You know I love you, like I seriously do!
An impactful and responsible relationship and marriage is possible.
