Sex is a very important aspect of marriage that if not well handled will cause dissatisfaction in marriage.
Many Christians frown at sexual education, whereas we need it more.
This is because some of is married as virgins or married virgins and we have not been so much exposed to sex.
Sex is the carnal aspect of marriage, just as prayer and righteousness is the spiritual aspect.
The most important thing about sex between couples is appreciation.
Appreciate each other and paint an ecstatic picture of him/her in your head. Be full of sweet imagination. See them as being Beautiful and attractive.
You need discipline and commitment to appreciate sex in marriage.
You can’t enjoy sex with your partner when you don’t see him/her as being attractive. Accept that your partner is the most attractive person on earth. As a man, train yourself and your mind to come to the conclusion that no woman anywhere is sweeter or will ever be sweeter than your wife.
Once you do this, her Beauty will start intoxicating you as before.
Delete that thought that that girl you are seeing outside could be better than your wife because she is not and you will be disappointed if you are giving the opportunity to try her out.
My head is full with the thought of my wife and I tell myself whenever a beautiful lady passes by. I tell myself that my wife is more beautiful.
I say it over and over again that there is nothing any woman outside have that my wife does not have.
Once this becomes a mindset, love and appreciation comes easily because you have trained your mind to believe.
