Its really difficult to understand the fact that in this 21st century, we still have ladies who can’t do anything for themselves without depending on a man, they have needs but do not have any source of income to meet up to these needs, they completely depend on a man for survival.
Parents now watch their girls grow up to a point of adulthood without installing into them the ability to take care of their needs themselves, parents are supposed to nurture their female children to be independent, to be able to survive on their own without having to depend on anybody.
The girl child grows into adulthood with the mentality that the man is supposed to provide her every needs and if he does not have she can’t provide for herself or the family. because of the fact that she’s looking for who to be dependant on it makes her choose money over love when it comes to choosing who to marry.
She then marries a man who she is not in love so she can depend on his money to survive, most ladies who fall into such categories always end up in ugly situations, ladies learn trade, start a business, do something meaningful with your life, no man wants to marry a liability as a wife, everyman wants a woman who can contribute to the family when things are rough.
Don’t be the kind of woman that can’t buy cream or even bathing soap without having to ask a man for it, get a Job, get a business, look for a way of being independent, a man is not a Job, if you’re too Dependant on a man he tends to value you less.
A woman who is independent is admired by everyone, a woman who is too Dependant on a man losses value and tend to be under the shadow of a man for the rest of her life.
