I beg you from my heart and for your future sake to please adhere to these few instructions.
✓ Never love a man that does not love you in return.
✓ Never try to change your man’s lifestyle. You can’t change a grown man, that is the work of the Holy Spirit (2 Corin. 5:17). Always pray for him if you are convinced that you both can make a Godly home.
✓ Never give your man sex to show how much you love him, sex can never equate love (Premarital sex kills relationship)
✓ Never hope on your man for financial freedom, we all need support.
✓ Never stop praying and trusting God for the right man, only God can bring him to you.
✓ Never trust in your beauty, it’s only character that can keep you in marriage. Don’t be deceived, real men prefer respect to beauty (Prov. 31:30)
✓ Never try to please your man, be yourself and involve him in proactive communication so as to know him better before marriage.
✓ Never compare him with your ex: he is not your ex. Give him the due respect for his own uniqueness.
✓ Never try to lead him no matter your temperament demand. Remember: Men are configured by God to lead their wives.
✓ Plan less for your wedding day and more for your marriage life, wedding is a day event but marriage is for life.
✓ Don’t allow anyone to compel you to marry a man you are not sure of. Marriage is by choice and not by force.
✓ Never abandon God in any relationship you find yourself. Remember, God knows him more than you do.
To your continuous growth and wellness.
