Wedding is for a DAY .
Marriage is for a LIFETIME
Wedding is an OCCASION
Marriage is an INSTITUTION
Wedding is a PARTY
Marriage is REALITY.
One of the challenges that couples face immediately after their wedding is DEBT.
Debts incurred from putting the Wedding together.
The financial implications of Debt can affect a couple months, even YEARS after the wedding ceremony is long forgotten.
DEBT can cause resentment to fester amongst a newly Wed couple, blame trading, accusation and counter accusation, lies told to evade debtors, quarrels become frequent and soon full blown fights break out.
Future salaries forfeited to settle debts.
This can be avoided….
Dear Young Man, help yourself..
Dear young lady, help your Man.
Do not INSIST on too many friviloties
Pre wedding SHOOT, Intra wedding SHOT, post wedding SHAT, shower this, bath that..
Do as your strength can carry and leave the rest for those coming after you..
Do not spend all your money planning WEDDING and forget to keep some money for what you will EAT in MARRIAGE.
Don’t depend on the money they will spray you during your dance, it can disappoint.
Don’t borrow money or use your life savings to plan a wedding and become broke/enter into debts trying to impress people that don’t care…
After wedding, there’s house rent, school fees, Nepa bill. Baby food don cost oh…
Wedding gown can be sewn, your wedding gown mustn’t be the most expensive one or an imported one, after wedding day, will you use it again?
You mustn’t buy wedding shoes of N100,000, is shoe, is not car.
The food mustn’t be prepared by an official catering firm that will charge you N300,000, after 3 days people will forget how the food tasted, find a less expensive alternative.
Don’t go for a cake that will cost you N150,000, when you actually don’t have the money for it.
“I must buy Luois Vuitton suit and shoes, Dolce and Gabanna wedding gown, Tommy Hilfiger diamond encrusted heels, Versace Pant, Honeymoon in Sheraton hotel, where one night is your three months salary. Now you have refused to pick calls from the caterer.
Cut your cut according to your cloth before you start switching of you phone because of debt.
Wedding is for a Day.
Marriage is for a Lifetime
They don’t give award for most expensive wedding……
You can even save costs from wedding and use it to live large in marriage..
“If your wedding is too expensive, your marriage will bear the costs.”-
