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WOMEN, YOU’RE NOT A REHABILITATION CENTER FOR MEN WITH BAD CHARACTER

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In the patriarchal society we live in, there are some familiar lines we get to hear in our day to day life spoken by the groom’s mother to her ill-mannered son (of marriageable age)- “Let your wife come, she will set you straight!”, “You will become responsible once you get married”, “There is only one remedy for your drinking/smoking problem- i.e. Marriage”


“you need to settle down to cease all your bad habits like late night partying.” People have blind faith that marriage is like a magic band that will fix everything. It’s a brutal reality that a woman is considered as a rehabilitation center for badly raised or ill-behaved men.

We all have come across some incidents where a mother seems complaining that her son’s wife is not good as she failed to amend her son’s bad habit. Not only a man’s mother but people also blame a woman who is unable to change her husband or his habits or calls off her marriage.

Everyone loves to question the woman but no one cares to ask about the man’s behavior. In Africa, a girl from a tender age has been given lessons on good family morals as one day she will become someone’s wife so she must learn what it is like to be a good woman, good wife, and a good mother.

Women, you are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is NOT your job to fix him, change him, parent him or raise him. You want a partner, not a project. If he is irresponsible before marriage, don’t expect to change him thereafter. Be wise and run away from irresponsible men.

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